Are you a person that takes responsibility for everything that happens in your life? Or perhaps you are a victim of your life, blaming other people/things for the circumstances that happened?
The truth is, we all have a victim in us. But what we often do is we are trying to push it away, ignore it, deny it etc. When you start working on yourself and your own growth, the very first thing that needs to change is your awareness around the victim role that plays in you. You observe it, rather than be it. The magic lies in embracing fully that part of you that wants to put all responsibility onto others. See it and BE OK with this part of you.
Keep it near you so you can understand it. You don`t need to run away from it. When you do, it will get you. When you don`t, you have an opportunity to understand what it wants from you, what lesson it teaches you and how you can work together without `disturbing` each other. You will then never depend on someone/something making you happy. You are in control of your life and that is one of the biggest gifts you can offer to yourself 🌸